18 Ways to Upgrade Your Bumble BFF Bio (and Get Better Matches)
Looking for ideas to update your Bumble BFF bio?
You’re in the right place.
Your bio plays a bigger role than most people realize.
Whether you’re new in town or just hoping to meet a few people to hang out with, your profile is your first impression—and your best shot at attracting the right kind of friendships.
When I made these changes to my profile after a few months on the app, I started matching with people who felt way more aligned with what I was actually looking for.
A few even turned into real-life hangouts.
Now I’m sharing the exact tips that helped me turn things around—so you can skip the guesswork and start meeting people who aren’t a total mismatch.
Let’s get into it.
18 Bumble BFF Bio Tips: What to Say—and What to Watch Out For
How to Write the Perfect Bumble BFF Bio
1. Complete Your Profile
If we’re being real: most people just throw up a couple photos, add a sentence, and call it a day on their Bumble BFF bio.
But if you actually want better matches, take the time to fill out the prompts and give people a clear idea of who you are.
You don’t need to be clever or polished—just honest.
Share what you’re into, what kind of friendship you’re looking for, and what someone can expect if they got to know you.
The goal isn’t to impress strangers—it’s to help the right people recognize that you’re someone they’d actually want to meet.
2. Share Your Interests, Don’t Just List Traits
Adjectives like “chill,” “funny,” or “outgoing” don’t mean much without context.
Instead of describing yourself in vague traits, give people something real to picture.
If you love slow mornings with coffee and a book, say that.
If you’re always down for a spontaneous drive or live music, put it out there.
You’re more likely to find someone who genuinely matches your vibe when you let your everyday life speak for you.
3. Mention Things You’d Want to Do Together
This is one of the easiest ways to stand out: give people a glimpse of what hanging out with you might look like.
Whether it’s hitting up a trivia night, walking your dog at a local park, or checking out new restaurants, sharing a few go-to ideas makes it easier for someone to imagine what kind of friend you are—and whether they’d enjoy tagging along.
It also takes some pressure off messaging.
If your profile already drops a few activity ideas, it gives your match a built-in way to ask to meet up.
4. Choose Photos That Reflect You
Your photos on Bumble BFF are kind of a big deal.
Unlike dating profiles, you’re not trying to impress with poses or filtered selfies.
The goal is to look approachable and real.
Use photos that show you doing things you enjoy, spending time in places you love, or just being yourself.
Give people a sense of your vibe and lifestyle, not just your face.
That way, you’re helping matches get a quick but honest glimpse of what it might be like to hang out with you.
5. Link Your Spotify account.
Sure, a lot of people link their Instagram—but for me, Spotify says way more.
Music taste can be surprisingly telling.
Someone’s profile might look perfectly curated, but if their top artists are full of problematic musicians you’d never support, that gives you a good read on where they’re at—and helps you save time by swiping left.
On the flip side, if they’re into the same offbeat artists or Y2K throwbacks as you, it’s an easy convo starter and a quick sign you might actually vibe.
Bumble BFF Bio Examples
Bio 1: “Hey foodies! I’m an adventurous Aquarius who loves cooking, checking out new restaurants, and planning spontaneous weekend getaways. I work as a speech pathologist and spend my free time vlogging about my favorite eats. Always down to explore the local food scene or hit the road for a last-minute trip. 🍲✈️”
Bio 2: “I’m looking for a weekend buddy for karaoke, trivia nights, scary movies, and pizza debates. If you’re into off-key singing, jump scares, and arguing about pineapple on pizza, we’ll get along great. 🎤🍕😄”
Bio 3: “Hi all! I’m big on nature—whether it’s gardening, hiking, or just soaking up the sun. I love cozy coffee spots, great conversations, and getting lost in a good book. Hoping to find some laid-back friends who might even be down to start a book club. Let’s bond over fresh air, iced lattes, and favorite reads. 🌿☕📚“
Red Flags to Watch for in Bumble BFF Bios
Before you swipe right, taking a close look someone’s profile and bio can clue you in on who they are and what kind of friend they’re after.
Taking a few seconds to scan for red flags can save you from wasting time on people who just aren’t a good fit for you (or aren’t ready for real friendship).
Here are a few common red flags I’ve noticed on Bumble BFF:
6. The Dreaded Blank Bio
If someone couldn’t be bothered to write anything, that’s a red flag—not a mystery to solve.
A blank bio gives you nothing to go off of, and chances are, they’re just swiping out of boredom and have no real interest in making friends.
7. No Personality Detected
A one-liner like “just bored and wanna make friends :)” tells you nothing useful.
Are we gonna bond over matcha? Go thrifting? Hate the same TikTok trends?
No idea.
A vague, low-effort bio makes it hard to tell if we’d even have fun hanging out.
8. Their Partner is Their Life
If every photo is with their partner and the bio says something like, “My boyfriend says I need more friends lol,” that’s a no from me.
Those matches often come with weird dynamics—like needing permission to hang out or their man randomly tagging along.
I’m all for love, but I’m not looking to be anyone’s third wheel.
I want friends who have their own lives—and the freedom to live them.
9. Negative Vibes
If someone’s bio is already full of drama, complaints, or bitterness… that’s a skip.
I’m all for being real, but I’m not trying to match with someone who’s announcing their chaos up front.
I want kind, emotionally balanced friends—not someone whose life is one giant vent session.
10. Overly Filtered or Fake-Looking Photos
If all their pics are blurry, airbrushed, or hiding their face behind filters and sunglasses, it’s a red flag.
It’s not about looks—it’s about transparency.
I just want to know who I’m talking to.
When every photo looks overly curated or unrecognizable, it gives off “what are you hiding?” energy.
11. “Follow Me on Insta” Bios
If their bio is just their IG or TikTok handle, it’s safe to assume they’re looking for followers rather than friendships.
12. Swiping for Sex
If someone’s “just looking for friends… but open to more 😉,” no thanks.
Whether it’s men sneaking into BFF mode to find dates or women openly seeking hookups or situationships, it’s a red flag.
This app is for friendships—period.
13. Self-Declared Flakes
“I’m a bad texter” or “I’m kinda flaky lol” isn’t quirky—it’s a warning.
If someone’s already telling me they’ll ghost or cancel last minute, I believe them.
Friendship takes effort. I’m not looking to chase anyone down just to hang out.
What to Do After You Match
Now that your bio’s working and the right people are swiping, what comes next?
This section is all about what to say (and how to say it) once you’ve matched with someone:
14. Say Hello!
Matched? Don’t just sit there—say hi!
You’ve got 72 hours before the match disappears, so don’t let a good one slip away.
I’m a big believer that whoever finished the match should send the first message.
It shows interest and initiative.
That said, if you’re feeling excited to connect, don’t overthink it. Just send the message.
A simple “Hey, your profile gave me good vibes!” can be all it takes to start something great.
15. Start With Something Specific
Generic openers are fine—but you’ll have a better shot at a real convo if you comment on something from their bio.
If they mention hiking, ask what trails they recommend. If they love astrology, ask about their big three. Anything that shows you actually read their profile goes a long way.
It not only breaks the ice—it shows you’re interested in them, not just matching for the sake of it.
16. Ask About Their Interests
If the convo’s going well, start getting to know what they’re into.
Ask about their hobbies, favorite shows, music, weekend plans—whatever feels natural.
The goal is to figure out if you vibe and what kind of hangouts might actually work in real life.
You don’t need to rapid-fire interview them, just keep the chat curious and open.
Think of it like soft planning for your first potential friend date.
17. Be Careful Not to Force Anything.
Some convos are just awkward.
That’s normal.
But if they’re giving one-word answers or not asking you anything back, don’t keep pushing.
I usually give it two chances—if they’re not matching your energy or curiosity by then, it’s probably not a fit.
No hard feelings.
Just move on and save your time for someone who actually wants to talk.
18. Don’t Wait Forever to Meet
If the vibe is good and they’re putting in equal effort, don’t be afraid to suggest a meetup within a few days.
Unlike dating apps, Bumble BFF isn’t about endless texting.
Once you know you might get along, pick something simple—coffee, a walk, a bookstore hangout—and just go for it.
In my experience, chatting for 4 or 5 days is the sweet spot.
It keeps the convo fresh and gives you something to actually talk about in person.
In Closing
Following these tips should help you get better matches—and maybe even turn some into real-life friends.
If you’re curious about what Bumble BFF is really like, I’ve also written a full review and shared some of my own horror stories.
Give those a read next if you want the whole tea before diving in!
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2 Comments
Tiffiny Nicole Heatley
Hello
This information is very helpful. Especially the red flag section. Thank you for the information.
Elle Ayo
Hi! Thank you so much for taking the time to read and comment. I’m happy you found the information in this post helpful!